Flattery: a choice

Today, I thought to write an article on flattery, why not? By the way. it is in fashion ! We all love the things which are in trend, then i have decided to write on it. This article is not about that flattery is good or bad, it is about that flattery is only a choice. We have used "flattery" word in our childhood with our friends like - "Do not not flatter me, please ! or I love the way you flatter me !! In our childhood, flattery was a choice and not more than a funny aspect. Further, in our college life, flattery was still a funny aspect and choice for us. BUT, after our college, when we become a responsible person in the society; now flattery is not a choice for us, it is mandatory for us. Some are born with flattery in their bones, some do not. Today, flattery is counted as one of the quality during our job and during our work. If, there is demand of flattery, then they must include "flattery" in our syllabus too so that it will not tough for us later. Why these double standards? More than adding it in our syllabus, they should include a column of "% of flattery" in our resume too. Because it is necessary to clear for the applicants that whether "you want work, or you want flattery"; because we can not offer both. I really wonder on those who wants flattery more than the person who offer it. The one who wants flattery they have developed a sense of insecurity and a sense of overpowering to feel their false power. This thought is not a problem for one individual only instead this thought is a problem for the society. This mentality does not have an aim of "Greatness and Excellence" in life. This mentality produces a looser who have lost themselves and now want to win outside. We can only  analyse the flaws and not to support them!!.

 When a little negativity is supported, it blooms day by day. I do not think anyone of us want it.