Life is not a Map

      As a human, evolution is our nature. Evolution in our thought process and changes in our priorities.

              Often, in society, people claim to have a definite map of their life. After 1 year, what they are 

              gonna do. What is going to happen to their life.              

             I never came in terms of this fact. Because life is in moments. Thought changes in moment, 

            people experience, realise and evolve. That is the process. Where is the map?

            You never know, what thought may inspire you in your life and it can change rest of your life. 

            Where is the map?

            You never know, what priorities are gonna play important role in your life.

            People, who constantly live in having clarity of life, are probably the one, who are not evolving

           or not accepting the evolution or suppressing their own desires.

People are forcing life not living, fitting themselves in a box, 

which they may think is secure but in reality its illusion of all good image. Because

addressing your own desires takes effort and courage.          

  What you may wish yesterday, may be you don't want to dwell on that, tomorrow too. 

       Your thoughts changes, your inspiration changes, your driving force changes or may be you

        become exactly who you are.

Bring peace and harmony in life

In this fast world, bringing peace and harmony in life despite of dealing with the worldly things is an art. We struggle a lot in bringing peace. Before focusing on peace and harmony, our first step should be towards accepting the fact, despite the noise of outer world, it is possible to bring peace.

Peace starts with acceptance, acceptance of once trueselves. In not trying too hard to consume things, to win over something, to let go wherever required and to settle like mud in calm water.

What action we take, solely determines the peace in our life. We manifest them through our actions.

Which kind of words we are speaking, what we are thinking, what we are watching, the environment we are in determines peace in our life.

Human is completely indulged in consumption, this habit of consuming brings disharmony. We are not ready to restore, to nourish and we are in doubt that we are progressing. If we will not make conscious choice of choosing joy, faith, happiness over our life, human will constantly get trapped in lower emotions, jealousy, ungratefulness, mockery. And will feel more temptation to boost his ego, without knowing the fact there is a pit below all this.

And believe me if you stay longer in a shit, it will stop smelling too.

It can be your bad actions, your poor thought process, your  indulgence in lower emotions, poor working culture, dead end friendships.

Fix them, if not get over THEM.

 

  

POWER OF UNCERTAINTY.....

                

  How you feel about certainty? How fulfilled it makes   you?  How definite it is? 

It makes the

        way straight. Because you know, you do not have to figure it out. Figuring out takes effort.

           So, basically when we are certain, we are relax. So definitely there is no problem in certainty..

          Now, what about the uncertainty. Nothing is certain. No straight road. No clue. 

So, how to survive uncertainty ?

Why uncertainty comes and how we can utilize it in our maximum favour ?

        In real, uncertainty is the real test of one's "strength of character" or a way to develop strength of character.

            Strength of character is the only way to deal uncertainty. In uncertainty  real you comes out. 

So this is the time to develop a better real you. Probably, more sorted one.

In uncertain time, be an observer, access everything. In the time of uncertainty. What ever

you are gonna experience, that is the real thing. That's where your power lies.

It means, when you will see certainty, you have to keep these points with you. 

Certainty does not allow you to see the side which uncertainty does.

So uncertainty has a power. It feels uncertain. But that's where the real essence lies, only if we access it properly and channelize it in a more proper way.

"Its a way of universe, telling you that in uncertainty, develop your strength of character

and in certainty remember your lessons you learned in uncertainty".

         

Families are overrated ?

In a country like India, where families are considered as an important part of your life. We as an indian are very melodramatic in terms of families. They should definitely be considered as one of the part of your life.

But they does not define you as a whole. A well family acts like a shelter but never hamper each others individual growth. But Indian families does not focus on their individual growth, they do not care about their maximum potential even. Sometimes they act like an emotional vulture. 

But as we are born, to explore every possibility of human life. We are firstly answerable to the creator not your families. People often give it as an excuses, oh ! i can not go there, my family would not allow. Well this is wonderful if you are timid in life, you will always have an excuse.

But if you are courageous enough to explore every possibility of your life. You have to overcome this melodramatic hurdle. Not because you do not care but you care more about the creator and the life given to you. That is the only way to live fully. We all are gifted with the potential to explore the possibility by your own. Nothing should bind you, you are not responsible what someone else feel. You are only answerable to your highest calling. Everything is just a bondage to keep you down in life. 

Sometimes few bad habits go from generation to generation through a family because everyone thought that they are supposed to be like this.

 Challenge is to overcome it. 

I honestly feel, families are important but sometimes overrated too.

Rebuilt it again ! Done and dusted :D

 As, all of us can not deny the fact that year 2020 has been the worst for human kind. Probably the year you want to forget but will not able to forget. No one has thought that 2020 is going to vanish each single thing from their life. Lets remind the things which all of us of has survived. Other countries have survived covid but Indians survived covid and politics….lol !

 It feels really amazed to think about the days when we used to watch TV for hours and hours just to check number of covid patients. It has developed a habit of anxiety alongwith comfort ofcourse because we were on our couch, sitting and eating.

We had anxiety but had comfort too. But it is the truth that as a human we all want comfort consciously or subconsciously. The good habit we have developed in years, were being crushed under covid era. It includes addiction to mobile phone and sleeping excessively. But this time we had excuse of bad habits or bad routines that is covid. But not any more, haha !

 Covid has really tested the patience of human brain, it has created many bad patterns, bad cycles. Have you felt stuck, or in a thought loop again and again? ofcourse yes ! who has not.

Even the most lively human being is not untouched with the cruelty of covid. Forget about the dreams, keeping yourselves mentally as fit as you were before 2020 is a task now.  As December is ending, this is the time to break the cycle of your brains and emerge with the same willpower again or even more. And congrats, we all have succeeded during this testing time.

It’s the time to rebuilt it again, and this time more firmly and consciously.

Clear the dust ! before it becomes thick. Clear the lenses before it become blurry.

                                        (Painting created by Kalpana Bisht)

 

3 month experience in the nature !

This piece of writing is written at once, as most of the articles in this blog are written with in a moment (5-10 minute), when it comes from inside. I hope my message will be conveyed to the readers as it is. 

Many realisations come to your door, when you start living in the lap of nature, by nature I mean, not trimmed by the human in a certain way. Here I am talking about the nature in its real form. Nature which grows in the direction where it meant to be. Nature which is not controlled by the human.

Initially, the nature will scare you. Because we have seen the life full of technology around us. Gradually, you will become friendly with the nature. And at last you will start loving it, and then comes to the realisation part.

Often sitting inside our cabins, we get so much entangled in our problems, that it becomes our life. We start feeling that the world starts from us and end at us. When you will wander on the endless roads full of sky touching trees, the possibilities seems to be endless. You will feel, you are just a dot in this universe. It will make you feel, worrying about the things which are just a dot in the universe is so meaningless. Once you start living or seeing the life in this broader lens, a lot of burden is removed from our shoulder. We are creating the world inside the world i.e. our mind, it just takes momentarily experience to see the actual reality or our actual position in this universe.

 I will make you understand this by an example: 

When you top in your class, you feel like the world starts from you and ends at you. But what happens when you see the great people who has attained so much in life, will you compete with them ? No, you may try, but that will be a meaningless effort. You will embrace them, their greatness, you will be their devotee. You will surrender them, and you will want their grace on you. Same way, nature has been created in a certain way. You cry, you fight within. Its your own fight, but nature has not created us like this. Whatever goes according to the nature, can never fail.

Because creater knows how to paint the world. Which color suits where, but due to our less experiences in life, we forcefully try to paint our life, using our desired color. Once you start living the life from the nature's perspective. You become limitless and most importantly worriless.

Following are pictures which may justify the experience, these are original pictures without any kind of filter.

Be grateful to the life !

Sometimes all you need is, to be grateful to the life.

Life is good, if you have zeal to survive.

If, you will make every opportunity a mess.

Things will always seem to be less.

Focus, always on what you have.

Instead of what you can have.

Take full charge of your life.

Instead of crying over a list of sacrifice.

Be a master and conquer the world.

Instead of being a slave and just lying curled.