Families are overrated ?

In a country like India, where families are considered as an important part of your life. We as an indian are very melodramatic in terms of families. They should definitely be considered as one of the part of your life.

But they does not define you as a whole. A well family acts like a shelter but never hamper each others individual growth. But Indian families does not focus on their individual growth, they do not care about their maximum potential even. Sometimes they act like an emotional vulture. 

But as we are born, to explore every possibility of human life. We are firstly answerable to the creator not your families. People often give it as an excuses, oh ! i can not go there, my family would not allow. Well this is wonderful if you are timid in life, you will always have an excuse.

But if you are courageous enough to explore every possibility of your life. You have to overcome this melodramatic hurdle. Not because you do not care but you care more about the creator and the life given to you. That is the only way to live fully. We all are gifted with the potential to explore the possibility by your own. Nothing should bind you, you are not responsible what someone else feel. You are only answerable to your highest calling. Everything is just a bondage to keep you down in life. 

Sometimes few bad habits go from generation to generation through a family because everyone thought that they are supposed to be like this.

 Challenge is to overcome it. 

I honestly feel, families are important but sometimes overrated too.