Honesty : A habit

We are grown up learning "Honesty is the best policy". But as we grow, we attract towards dishonesty. Dishonesty has become a habit. We are lying every day, every hour and every minute, not only with others but also with ourselves. Lying can be the easiest shortcut for short time benefits but it is  dangerous for long term. Dishonesty complicates your life & gives you depression. You have to remember your all lies, which is not possible surely. Gradually, it degrades your personality  However, honesty with ourselves and with others gives you mental peace. It gives you honest friends because honesty attracts honesty. It gives you higher quality of trustworthy friends. It gives you less anxiety, it boosts your confidence. Although living an honest life is not easy, but as you command on it, you will learn it gives you so many better things in life, which dishonesty can never.

Use of honesty for a positive purpose is irreplaceable !!

Just Smile

Life tends to change daily, we go through sweet as well as bitter moments. Without realizing the fact that the bad moment will pass, We de-energize ourself in the worry and keep waiting for good moment. But the remedy is; in difficult moments we should behave like a duck "Calm on the surface of water but keep paddling inside", Just stay calm, keep smiling and keep the good work in progress. Keep practicing the smile formula, soon it will become habit.

"Don’t cry if things are beyond control

Don’t frown even if life is without stroll

Don’t loose your identity;

 though circumstances are trying you to fail

Things are really destined to transform;

Same as the season changes its form !!

A bit of change, life will offer you daily

Whether it will run happy or;

 Pass by the road so prickly

Phase tend to vary, slowly or quickly.

Just smile; a soulful smile!!

It  makes the bright, the darkest of day

Radiant and powerful than million sun-ray

Reduces the pain in all possible way

Neither worry nor in hurry; mood not to spoil

Sooner or later God will repay for your toil!!

Public criticism

Each one of us faces criticism in their life. No one can escape from that. Some criticism are really genuine but some criticism are just to bring you down. Before reacting towards any kind of criticism we need to know the psychology behind the criticism. Some criticism which are really genuine, they helps in our growth and it is also a sign that someone has cared about you that they have used their time in criticizing you. One benefit of genuine criticism is that they give you different perspective to see the things. One should embrace this type of criticism.

On the other side, some times you receive criticism with no reason. The reasons behind this criticism are either you are doing good in your life or your opinions creates conflict in others minds. The purpose of these critics is only to bring you down so that they can feel their power on you. We  should react very smartly towards this criticism. Learn not to criticism bring you down. Learn not to spend time with criticism. Create boundaries for this type of criticism. 

There are both positive and negative side of a criticism. React wisely!

In the appreciation of nature: Dhuandhar falls @ Madhya Pradesh

Each of us want to escape to a place which is having nature's touch,far from the city's crowd, pollution and population. A place where we meet to ourselves truely. But rarely we appreciate those wonderful things with which we are endowed free of cost. The treasure of nature should be protected and appreciated.

"Descending down with a beautiful hue;

It was merging  in ocean blue.

Sparkling and smoky, wavy its motion;

Mellow pace melting out my emotion.

Sunny rays gleaming overall,

My appraising eyes for dhuandhar fall !!

blazing waterfall, true beauty of nature

Serene so devine, perfect moment  to capture

Plunging carefully deep into water

Drowning my troubles in prolonged shower  

Shivering  body embraced in windy blower 

Calmness dissolved all my hearts roar

Kids were screening coins in pebbles heap

I wonder!  how their lyf is amazingly cheap?

Cute toddlers are the businessman so fine;

Selling out fruits midway of riverine.

Yeah! breathtaking, as its cascading down

Simply an awesome-cheerful town."

Narrow definition of success

The inspiration of writing this article came from the question asked by a parent on a social website, the question was " HOW SHOULD I MAKE MY SON PREPARING FOR IIT FROM FIRST STANDARD"?.  This question in itself arises so many questions. How we can decide the future of a child who knows nothing about this world.! Basically we want from a child to see the world as we see. Why we are not ready to let them grow naturally? Why our success definitions are so narrow? Does getting admission in a reputed college and getting a huge package makes life sufficient?. The answer is NO!!. These things can give us only financial stability. The necessity is to grow strong kids rather then the one which we want them to be. We can make strong kids only when we give them chance to choose what they want to do, no matter if they are wrong, let them fall, let them rise again. In this process you will prepare a strong kid not a robot. Prepare a kid to face all the hardships of the life rather than confining their abilities . Let them LIVE and Let them GROW. !!

An invisible hand

Human as a social creature can’t survive alone in the challenging world , we move around the world where family cannot be with us everytime, so we make a bond with same kind of creatures called friends. In the journey of life we come across two type of friends;  One who will be with you in good times as well as in bad times to relief you with their calming words within their limitations and the other who will be invisibly-silently at your back , their presence will never be seen but limitlessly they keep doing for your betterment. What else can be the presence of god that is sustaining us in an increasingly more challenging world.

Stable is Boring

In today's society, the term stable is considered as a "mode of relax". Life is never stable and it should not be. If we wish from our life to be stable then it is a cheating with ourselves. A world full of different color, different ideas, different phases is not worth of being stable. Do you feel any excitement if there will be no problem in your daily life. The answer is No!!. Life is beautiful because it is unpredictable. The enjoyment of life is in handling unknown problems daily and in realizing that you are stronger and smarter than yesterday. Life is beautiful for those who has mastered the skill of enjoying it and skill of solving each problem with a learning attitude.No worries, if your work got delayed, you have learnt patience; No worries, if you have bunked classes, you have gathered memories; No worries, if you got cheated, you have learnt more about yourselves. Life is fair at each step only we have to master the skill of holding it. Life never makes us to cry actually we choose to cry. Life is always full of possibilities. The necessity is to change your attitude towards life, worry less and learn more! As long as there is instability in life. there are chances of growth. Life is about GROWING, being better than yesterday.

Stable is boring and no one likes boring!!