A world beyond "ME"

You have money, you have your dream home and you have fame too, BUT you do not know how to cherish them !!.  Do you? NO! Because "Me" does not gives satisfaction. We forget that the formula of a satisfied life is in thinking about other lives on this planet. We owe them. We are too busy in increasing our bank balance. I have seen many species around me, most of them are sad and disappointed because they are fully filled with "Me". They are too busy in making their own paths. Who cares for decorating the paths? "Somehow i want to get my work done."!! Right..!! Do you think this way and glorify this thought ? The More "Me", more dissatisfaction. Who are not filled with me, they are free, just like the wind.  Think about other life also, then you will realize that you are progressing. More you try to fill your pockets first, there are chances that you are collecting frustration, disappointment and dissatisfaction for yourselves. Because vanishing "Me" makes you free from any fear. A fearless life is worth it.!!

Crazy trios

There are times when we feel no-one truely understands us, But an even or odd set of people who are your true reflection, and never fail to make you feel understood. Even no-one can understand you better than them. This belongs to my odd set of crazy people.

We siblings; the crazy trio

Two bully sisters and sweetheart bro

Great at fighting, greatest at shouting

And really awesome during the outing

Though we can live easily apart

As we are connected strongly by heart..!!    

True rivals but partners in crime,

Feel proud to see each other shine.

One is the chirpy bird; 

“Oh please shut up” is her punch line

She is the personality very interesting

Even reading this poem, will keep her brows raising

The little brother; is sporty at heart

Until satisfaction; keeps finishing his shot

He is the person of values and kindness

Among friends he is famous for forgiveness

The remaining one; need no introduction,

Both youngsters are; her true reflection!!

Flattery: a choice

Today, I thought to write an article on flattery, why not? By the way. it is in fashion ! We all love the things which are in trend, then i have decided to write on it. This article is not about that flattery is good or bad, it is about that flattery is only a choice. We have used "flattery" word in our childhood with our friends like - "Do not not flatter me, please ! or I love the way you flatter me !! In our childhood, flattery was a choice and not more than a funny aspect. Further, in our college life, flattery was still a funny aspect and choice for us. BUT, after our college, when we become a responsible person in the society; now flattery is not a choice for us, it is mandatory for us. Some are born with flattery in their bones, some do not. Today, flattery is counted as one of the quality during our job and during our work. If, there is demand of flattery, then they must include "flattery" in our syllabus too so that it will not tough for us later. Why these double standards? More than adding it in our syllabus, they should include a column of "% of flattery" in our resume too. Because it is necessary to clear for the applicants that whether "you want work, or you want flattery"; because we can not offer both. I really wonder on those who wants flattery more than the person who offer it. The one who wants flattery they have developed a sense of insecurity and a sense of overpowering to feel their false power. This thought is not a problem for one individual only instead this thought is a problem for the society. This mentality does not have an aim of "Greatness and Excellence" in life. This mentality produces a looser who have lost themselves and now want to win outside. We can only  analyse the flaws and not to support them!!.

 When a little negativity is supported, it blooms day by day. I do not think anyone of us want it.

Re-defining Courage

Every creature on earth is born with great qualities but all are not courageous. But my believe over the word courage took years to define it. Finally I got to know; courage is not the thing we are born with but its something we gain. The situations and conditions we were destined to live decide what we gain. As a result an individual possesses two type of courage; Physical and Mental, a very few have both kind simultaneously and both are unique and beautiful in their own way. The physical courage encourages an individual to take risk at the cost of own life, that made possible the launching of satellites and the mental courage keeps an individual selecting a right or wrong path and keep going on that without any deviation. When both kind of courage meet, they create wonders on earth. Accepting bad situations to turn it into a greater one, standing for your belief, despite falling down standing again and again is courage only. 

Be New !!!

Being a human we are always afraid of a change without realizing that change is always beautiful.  Change may be physically, emotionally or career related. Being a new born baby and as an adult this fear of a change has always been there. Actually this fear is not about the change, this fear is about changing our present state of mind. Human mind is not flexible to adopt new state of mind easily. We are grown up with a thought that we are going to live in this phase forever, instead of this we should have a thought to experience more and more in our life. Keeping this thought in our mind,  we will never oppose any change. Look back in your yesterdays which has given you beautiful today. Remember!! first day of your school, when you were going away from your mother, you cried. That was a beautiful start of a school life which you have enjoyed later but your first reaction was to cry. Similarly,  there are so many changes in your life which will turn beautifully, although we did not realize it now. Change is tough in the starting, confusing in the middle but very beautiful and satisfied in the end. Evolution of mankind resulted in us as a modern human :D :D That is also a change. Sometimes things which are not in our control turns out into beautiful ending, only we have to adopt that situation as it is!!

Change is required. Because it affects you in many levels.

1. Explores your mind: Being in the same situation, gives you nothing new. However changes explores all layers of the mind. Exploring ourselves has always been mandatory.

2. Increases limits: Changes makes you limitless, it forces you to come out from your comfortable zone, which is necessary for your polishing. It makes you a diamond.  

3. Provides opportunity: Changes provides you lots of opportunities in life. These opportunities are mandatory for your growth.

 Life  has so much to see, to feel and to experience. Why do not you try this? 

Be new!

Are you victim of Destination Addiction ?

Destination addiction is an addiction, where we live with the idea that Happiness is not here, instead in the upcoming future. We run throughout the day, even throughout the life to search that happiness which we think is not here. Destination addiction gradually becomes a habit, where we start thinking that happiness is in our next job, in our next work, in our next relation etc. But have you ever felt like, yes! this is the moment, where i am truly happy!.  No, because happiness is right here, in the present moment. Undue expectations from our upcoming future ruins everything. Look back into your life, where you thought you will be truly happy, after getting whatever you wished. Do u feel, content or happy now! obviously No! because we are not enjoying days, weeks, months and year. We all are in a hurry of our NEXT MOVE!! . It is a unstoppable cycle and we are the unsatisfied victims.

Lets start living with the idea that happiness is right here; happiness is in enjoying the present moment!!

Destination addiction is a habit which can be controlled only by looking in our inner-self and questioning to ourselves.

Do not fit in !!

We all are born with different characteristics, choices, likes and dislikes. BUT, society tries to fit us in the same mould. How the people of different personalities can fit in the same mould? There are two choices for each of us: Either to fit in any mould without caring who you are OR  create your own ways, your own paths, your own style. Fitting in any mould can be easy but that is not you, you are not born for that. Fitting in any mould is a blind race which never reaches towards excellence, it is similar to living a life with guilt. Create your own mould. Be you, master the skill which makes you different.
 You are one of the beautiful creation of GOD! Dont take your life so granted! Live it! and Love it! Do not fit.

Be free!! Embrace who you are, it is necessary for you to be happy !!