The marketing media these days is so good that you reach to this conclusion that
"all that glitters is not gold".
A joint venture by Bisht sisters (Kalpana Bisht and Renu Bisht) to fetch out the feeling of every heart ! Each line and each thought of this blog is our own creation !
The marketing media these days is so good that you reach to this conclusion that
"all that glitters is not gold".
As a human, evolution is our nature. Evolution in our thought process and changes in our priorities.
Often, in society, people claim to have a definite map of their life. After 1 year, what they are
gonna do. What is going to happen to their life.
I never came in terms of this fact. Because life is in moments. Thought changes in moment,
people experience, realise and evolve. That is the process. Where is the map?
You never know, what thought may inspire you in your life and it can change rest of your life.
Where is the map?
You never know, what priorities are gonna play important role in your life.
People, who constantly live in having clarity of life, are probably the one, who are not evolving
or not accepting the evolution or suppressing their own desires.
People are forcing life not living, fitting themselves in a box,
which they may think is secure but in reality its illusion of all good image. Because
addressing your own desires takes effort and courage.
What you may wish yesterday, may be you don't want to dwell on that, tomorrow too.
Your thoughts changes, your inspiration changes, your driving force changes or may be you
become exactly who you are.
In this fast world, bringing peace and harmony in life despite of dealing with the worldly things is an art. We struggle a lot in bringing peace. Before focusing on peace and harmony, our first step should be towards accepting the fact, despite the noise of outer world, it is possible to bring peace.
Peace starts
with acceptance, acceptance of once trueselves. In not trying too hard to
consume things, to win over something, to let go wherever required and to
settle like mud in calm water.
What action
we take, solely determines the peace in our life. We manifest them through our
actions.
Which kind of
words we are speaking, what we are thinking, what we are watching, the environment
we are in determines peace in our life.
Human is
completely indulged in consumption, this habit of consuming brings disharmony. We
are not ready to restore, to nourish and we are in doubt that we are
progressing. If we will not make conscious choice of choosing joy, faith,
happiness over our life, human will constantly get trapped in lower emotions,
jealousy, ungratefulness, mockery. And will feel more temptation to boost his
ego, without knowing the fact there is a pit below all this.
And believe
me if you stay longer in a shit, it will stop smelling too.
It can be your bad actions, your poor thought process, your indulgence in lower emotions, poor working culture, dead end friendships.
Fix them, if not get over THEM.
How you feel about certainty? How fulfilled it makes you? How definite it is?
It makes the
way straight. Because you know, you do not have to figure it out. Figuring out takes effort.
So, basically when we are certain, we are relax. So definitely there is no problem in certainty..
Now, what about the uncertainty. Nothing is certain. No straight road. No clue.
So, how to survive uncertainty ?
Why uncertainty comes and how we can utilize it in our maximum favour ?
In real, uncertainty is the real test of one's "strength of character" or a way to develop strength of character.
Strength of character is the only way to deal uncertainty. In uncertainty real you comes out.
So this is the time to develop a better real you. Probably, more sorted one.
In uncertain time, be an observer, access everything. In the time of uncertainty. What ever
you are gonna experience, that is the real thing. That's where your power lies.
It means, when you will see certainty, you have to keep these points with you.
Certainty does not allow you to see the side which uncertainty does.
So uncertainty has a power. It feels uncertain. But that's where the real essence lies, only if we access it properly and channelize it in a more proper way.
"Its a way of universe, telling you that in uncertainty, develop your strength of character
and in certainty remember your lessons you learned in uncertainty".
In a country like India, where families are considered as an important part of your life. We as an indian are very melodramatic in terms of families. They should definitely be considered as one of the part of your life.
But they does not define you as a whole. A well family acts like a shelter but never hamper each others individual growth. But Indian families does not focus on their individual growth, they do not care about their maximum potential even. Sometimes they act like an emotional vulture.
But as we are born, to explore every possibility of human life. We are firstly answerable to the creator not your families. People often give it as an excuses, oh ! i can not go there, my family would not allow. Well this is wonderful if you are timid in life, you will always have an excuse.
But if you are courageous enough to explore every possibility of your life. You have to overcome this melodramatic hurdle. Not because you do not care but you care more about the creator and the life given to you. That is the only way to live fully. We all are gifted with the potential to explore the possibility by your own. Nothing should bind you, you are not responsible what someone else feel. You are only answerable to your highest calling. Everything is just a bondage to keep you down in life.
Sometimes few bad habits go from generation to generation through a family because everyone thought that they are supposed to be like this.
Challenge is to overcome it.
I honestly feel, families are important but sometimes overrated too.
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